Keep Positive
Meaning of keep positive:
Keep positive means you are aware of your self feelings and actually understands them correlating to your actual circumstances to overcome a situation.
Storyline about trying to keep positive in tough situations:
Once upon a time there was a lady named Rhea somewhere for Asia. She was born with blessed beauty that gained her anyone’s attention in the world. Since childhood she was almost fed up of the compliments towards her beautiful eyes, smile and so on. Soon others approach towards her made her understand that she was born with extra looks. And this diverted her focus on her beauty more.
With time she turned out to be the most beautiful young lady in the town. Now she was more aware of her gifted beauty and focused more to embrace it . Again, this bought her with more compliments.
And finally, a rich guy of the town happened to fall for her beauty. Now, he just wants to marry her. But she refused as she dreamed all these years for a good looking prince as the boy was barely average looking. Finally, her parents convinced her and she agreed and married him.
After marriage
Everybody continued to compliment her beauty. Moreover they always mentioned it to the boy that he is very lucky to have a fairy tale like wife. Gradually with time, the boy started to develop irritable reactions upon such comments. Of course, this converted their relation from love to hatred based.
Even after being blessed with two boys, the couple broke on a very sour note. Also, her husband and father to her kids kicked her out of the house without any financial help. Moreover, he even kept the boys with him in his house.
Now, the lady was depressed, cursing herself her beauty and everything that bought them together. Her sons wanted their mom back which gave her the real strength to fight back.
Eventually, she worked her with her parents support and continued a court fight for almost two years. All this time, her estranged husband went into wrong hands and became a drug addict.
Finally, when the man got arrested because of his illicit activities she was able get the custody for her both sons. Even when he returned back on bail he sold out all his properties for wrong reasons.
After years of hard work and fight, Rhea understood that God wanted her to be self capable because he know one day her husband will destroy all his wealth and she and her kids will be left alone with nothing in hand. God made her struggle all these years to make support her family in life. Today , she is a hands on single mother with her successful small business.
Moral
Whatever that happens in life comes with a purpose. And nothing is permanent in life neither success nor failures, neither good nor bad.
At times it gets tough in life to stay focused and one wants to say like, ” why me always” or “why me again” or ” not again”. There are some tips and tricks to stay calm and positive during tough times in life. They are
Start you day in a more stronger way with meditation, yoga or walk
Watch your favorite episodes from past times.
Treat yourself may be with good food or an outing
Try and support others. This brings a relief that you are not alone
Stop any negative advice approaching you.
Start with accepting easy to achieve challenges. This brings back the lost self confidence.
Take any recommended medicine on time.
Compliment others for whatever good you see in them. This will bring you in circumstances to look for good.
Try new things and get adaptive to changes in life. Simply live with the mantra that nothing is permanent here.
Follow YOLO( You Only Live Once) while trying to be happy.
Do not depend upon others for happiness.
Accept yourself the way you are. Only then others will accept you.
Make ladder goals in life.
Be friendly to others.
Develop love for nature and surroundings.
Stop overthinking
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